{"id":550,"date":"2014-03-28T14:01:28","date_gmt":"2014-03-28T14:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/library.brown.edu\/rock50\/?p=550"},"modified":"2014-03-28T14:01:28","modified_gmt":"2014-03-28T14:01:28","slug":"robert-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/2014\/03\/28\/robert-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Robert L. Friend, M.D. (Class of 1968)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-536\" alt=\"20140326-5\" src=\"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5.jpg\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/41\/2014\/03\/20140326-5-624x416.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The above quote is from Robert L. Friend, M.D.\u00a0(Class of 1968). Read the full memory below:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I started at Brown as a beenied member of the class of 1968 in 1964 and soon made the Rock my home. I remember studying at a carrel in the stacks with a view of the street. I spent more time there my freshman year than anywhere else as I buried myself and my fear in the comfort of books and solitude. I may have seemed like a bold, brash New Yorker to my room-mates at Archibald, but I was terrified inside. I also remember the time I made a discovery that has frequently been relevant to me as I work with teenagers as an adolescent psychiatrist. That discovery had to do with the way in which nearly anything can become fascinating, absorbing, and distracting when there is work and a deadline to be avoided. I was studying for some exam or other and found myself captivated by a book in the stacks near me. I was drawn to it as if it were the secret of life or a guide to sexual satisfaction&#8230;It was a book on census data from the early 18th century of the Pennsylvania Dutch counties! I was mesmerized and remember telling myself that this data was &#8220;really interesting.&#8221; It came to me in a flash that, no, this data was not really interesting but that the interesting thing was how I could possibly think that! A mind defensively seeking an avoiding distraction will stop at nothing, even census data from a long past century. As parents tell me about how they forbid their kids to use video games, phones, ipads etc. when exams loom in order to &#8220;protect&#8221; them from distraction I think to myself that what they really have to look out for is that fascinating census tract data.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The above quote is from Robert L. Friend, M.D.\u00a0(Class of 1968). Read the full memory below: I started at Brown as a beenied member of the class of 1968 in 1964 and soon made the Rock my home. I remember studying at a carrel in the stacks with a view of the street. I spent [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-550","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-rock-memories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/550","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=550"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/550\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=550"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=550"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/library.brown.edu\/create\/rock50\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=550"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}